After that I headed to the airport to meet my mom! She arrived at 6:15pm, and I waited patiently by the North International Arrivals Gate until 7:20 because that was the exit indicated by her flight number. Since Immigration had taken more over an hour, I just assumed she was having the same issue. In actuality, she had somehow come out the South Gate and been panicking there for 40 minutes! It wasn't even that far away, it just didn't occur to either of us to walk to the other gate. We had to laugh.
At the airport train station JR Ticket Office we exchanged the Japan Rail Pass Vouchers we had ordered before for our actual Japan Rail Passes. These are useful for short term travel if you are going to be using the shinkansen a lot, especially. There are other deals available for Japanese citizens, but this particular pass is only offered to tourists.
picture: my Japan Rail Pass
picture: plus a handy little rail map
It took us over an hour to get back to Hirakata from the airport, and then we had to find my mom's hotel. Being a visibly foreign person in Japan is funny, because even when you speak to someone in Japanese, if you aren't with a Japanese friend, that person doesn't fully believe that you could possibly know the language, even when he/she clearly understands everything you say and vice-versa.
I went into a 7-Eleven and asked the cashier if he could tell me where the hotel was. He brought out a map and explained in complete Japanese sentences, stopping at nouns such as "convenience store" to clarify in English. I do understand the want to use a language you learned in school and don't get many opportunities to practice, but it is kind of weird to substitute in random words when it should be pretty evident that I do, indeed, understand what you're telling me. This kind of treatment used to bother me deeply because it appears condescending, but I'm starting to see it as a strange and amusing attitude that I'm going to have to deal with if I spend time in Japan. Getting offended won't help anyone.
At least at the hotel check-in was smooth, and I didn't get a repeat of the 7-Eleven treatment from the hotel staff.
Travel tip:
11. Try not to get frustrated. Just don't do it. You're going to get a splattering of good and bad when you travel. Don't dwell on negative experiences and let the fun outweigh the frustration.
(All names used in this blog are pseudonyms.)